The most endeared Hindu deity, Krishna is also the original Bad Boy of Indian mythology. Every woman wants him to be her man while every guy wants to be that man. What was it that was so charming about Krishna that he would always be flanked by beautiful women? Well, he probably kept it simple, noticed the little things and most importantly, took it easy. Guys who are struggling with their personalities might want to learn a few tricks from this mythological fellow on how to be awesome. Indians are known for their fair skin fantasy and we have been imposing ridiculous and absurd standards of beauty on women for centuries. Lately, the cosmetics industry is successfully convincing men that they need to be fair too in order to be noticed by a woman, make balance sheets, fly a jet plane etc. While it’s a good thing that men are being subject to the fair skin fantasy of Indians and not just women, it is not a right norm. Look at Krishna and look at his ways with women. Do you think he would sneak out to the bathroom and apply fairness cream in the sly so that his roommate does not catch and make fun of him?

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The importance of Pre Selection

Every dating expert in the world would agree that the law of pre-selection hardly fails. Pre-Selection states that a woman is attracted to a man if she feels other women are attracted to him. If you think that “pre-selection” is a relatively modern construct, you’re dead wrong. Just look how Krishna used the best of pre-selection by surrounding himself with the finest women in Vrindavan.

Any woman who saw such a handsome man flanked by women who are having a good time around him would instantly find him attractive. However, make sure you actually hangout more with women and not just beg of them to click a picture with you so that you can put it on Facebook.

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Be a feminist when you need to be

You don’t have to be a bra burning, chest thumping feminazi. You just need to understand the princples of Feminism. You must stand up and revolt whenever you see women being objectified, used as commodities or being violated.

Remember how Krishna stood for Draupadi when the Kauravs tried to violate her? Her own husbands though of her as a property they have lost in a game and didn’t flinch a muscle to protest. It was Krishna, who had no relation to the woman, stepped up. It was not because he wanted to impress Draupadi – it was not the oldest Hindi movie trick to get the girl. It was just the right thing to do