Men...you can't live with them and you can't live without them. I fail to understand how a species like men can be so annoying and yet so incredibly sexy at the same time? I mean, one minute they think it is completely OK to forget your birthday and the very second minute they do something unintentionally which turns out to be so darn sexy! But here is the catch, most men don't know that we find certain unexpected thing sexy, so fellas to save your ass the next time you forget your anniversary, I am decoding 13 things that men didn't know that women find incredible sexy!

3. Being concerned about our safety when we are not with them.

That cute little message asking us if we have reached home is so sweet and so sexy.

4. The first thing we notice in a man are his shoes. A good pair of shoes goes a long way.

Now we don't expect you to wear a pair of Tod's, but a pair of good well maintained shoes look very classy.